Did you know that I host a FemDom club night? It’s called Gynarchy Gathering and it’s held at the Vanilla Alternative Adult club in Tempsford, which is near Sandy in Bedfordshire.
One of the many benefits of hosting a FemDom evening of fun and Female led debauchery is their licensing allows for nudity as well as a wide selection of play, unlike some other fetish events that may be held in nightclubs this means play has no holds barred other than that of obtaining consent from your play partner and respecting each others limits.
The next event: FRIDAY 21st FEBRUARY 2025
times: 8pm start, ends at 2.30am
Y/you can purchase tickets on the Gynarchy Gathering website: GynarchyGathering.co.uk
Gynarchy Gathering is an evening designed by Women for Women, to explore their Female Domination desires. We welcome the new, the seasoned and the curious, with something for everyone be it a lifestyle practitioner, Professional Domina or just those looking for the Lady to take more control in the bedroom. We also welcome voyeurs and those that have attended the club for the swingers events, as long as the Female Led environment is respected.
The next Gynarchy Gathering would be the third instalment in the last 12 months and both the previous events having some triple figures through the doors, it’s been an eventful evening with plenty of entertainment, education and play!
The Vanilla Alternative boasts plenty of on site parking and is only 8 minutes by taxi from Sandy train station. Should you wish to stay over at a local hotel, the VA club put on a regular shuttle to / from many of the local hotels for just £5pp per way and can be booked contacting them direct on: 07794730330
The hotels their shuttle to / from:
•Premier Inn (Crown / A1 Wyboston)
•Premier Inn (Colmworth Park)
•Wyboston Lakes - Waterfront
•Wyboston Lakes - Woodlands
•Wyboston Lakes - Willows
The Vanilla Alternative club is made up of 7 rooms and already has a dungeon area with a set of suitable kink play furniture such as swings, benches, a St Andrews cross and a cage but to top that off BENCHMARXX https://www.benchmarxxx.com/list - will be setting up a selection of their wonderful dungeon furniture such as bed, more benches and another St.Andrews cross.
Amongst the rooms, on the night of Gynarchy Gathering, there will be a main dungeon room where the rubber play corner will be set up. As well as a relax / downtime area so those looking to take a moment away from the kink play or just to have some rest, Our resident DJ Karina will be rocking the dance floor with a 7 hour DJ set, workshops will be held in the jacuzzi area. Where Y/you may even find the resident human toilet again!
Your DJ for the evening - Karina
Other things to note, if you arrive on the evening and want to expand your kink toy collection or realise you forgot something that you really want to use for play - Sanctuary of Sin - will be there with their stand stocking a varied toy selection.
Photography is prohibited on the evening EXCEPT at the GG selfie area which will be lit up with suitable lighting and unable to be missed. Please keep your personal photography to this area only. For all other photography needs, we have a fabulous Kink photographer joining us for this edition of Gynarchy Governance - Frankinsella.
If you’ve never been to the Vanilla Alternative club before, arrive by 8.25pm to join the club / safety tour and you don’t have to worry about turning up in your fetish attire, the club has a huge locker room so you can change once you’ve arrived.
Don’t own any fetish wear? Then you will need to wear all black instead.
Let Me introduce Y/you to the House Domme team:
Mistress Tess: The Visionary Host and Curator
Mistress Tess Tess stands as the centerpiece of the Gynarchy Gathering, a Domme renowned for Her commanding presence and multifaceted expertise. With years of experience in the art of BDSM, Mistress Tess specialises in slave training, sensory exploration, sadomasochism and fetish artistry. Her intuitive approach to power dynamics has garnered Her an international reputation, making Her a sought-after figure in the world of Female dominance.
As the event’s main host and curator, Mistress Tess has meticulously crafted the Gathering to be both educational and exhilarating. Her mission is to create a safe, inclusive space where attendees can explore their desires and expand their understanding of the lifestyle under the guidance of hand picked professionals.
Lady Ava Sheridon: The Art of Elegant Domination
Lady Ava Sheridon is the epitome of poise and precision. Known for Her grace and meticulous style, She specialises in protocol training, roleplay scenarios, and discipline. Lady Ava’s sessions are an artful dance of control and submission, leaving Her admirers in awe of Her unwavering authority. At the Gynarchy Gathering, Lady Ava will bring Her refined techniques to life, ensuring attendees experience the transformative power of Her unique approach.
Miss Kim Rub: The Goddess of Latex and Fetish Fantasy
Miss Kim Rub is a connoisseur of latex fashion and fetish exploration. Her expertise lies in sensory play, bondage, and the aesthetics of power. As an advocate for fetish inclusivity, Miss Kim Rub creates environments that are both alluring and empowering. At the event, expect Her to showcase the intoxicating allure of latex and guide attendees in embracing their most daring fantasies.
Domina Blaize: Mistress of Sadistic Elegance
Domina Blaize combines cruelty and charisma in equal measure, making Her a force to be reckoned with. Specialising in impact play, humiliation, and psychological domination, She thrives on pushing boundaries while maintaining a consensual and respectful dynamic. Domina Blaize’s presence at the Gynarchy Gathering promises to challenge and captivate attendees as they witness Her mastery in action.
Goddess Luna Law: Young Bratty Seductress
Goddess Luna Law is known for Her effortless dominance, Her cheeky smile and mesmerising accent. Physicolgical dominance, humiliation, and bondage are Her specialities. Goddess Luna’s nurturing yet commanding style ensures an unforgettable experience for those seeking to delve deeper into their submissive nature.
Tia Tease: The Enchantress of Playful Power
Tia Tease brings a vibrant, playful energy to the Gynarchy Gathering. With a knack for roleplay, teasing, and edging, She delights in keeping Her admirers on the edge - both literally and figuratively. Tia’s sessions are a perfect blend of lighthearted fun and unyielding control, making Her a favorite among those who value a dynamic and engaging power exchange.
The evenings schedule will be:
8.30pm - Club Tour / Safety Tour
10pm - slave auction
Hosted by Mistress Ava Sheridan and Domina Blaize
Coming as a lone slave? Enter the slave auction.
you MUST arrive to the club early on in the evening, locate Me (Mistress Tess) specifically and enter your slave name into My playbook. The auction will be capped at 15 slave positions and no slave will go unbid on, but I implore you to practice good hygiene and present yourself well.
Once you are auctioned off, it is down to you and the Domina whom has purchased you to have an adult conversation about limits and consent AND let Me be clear DO not enter the auction if you are feeling particular about whom you play with, it isn’t a Domme line up where you get to choose.
11pm - Performances begin.
This addition of Gynarchy Gathering will bring a whipping performance from My good self, along with a Shibari performance from Equine Rabbit as well as a bisexual all male pole performance from Tim and his lovely assistant, this will be the third Gynarchy Gathering event they’ve performed at and it’s always entertaining.
11.30pm - How to Domme your man 101 workshop held by Miss Kim Rub
Are You new to Female Domination and want to learn the bedroom / dungeon basics on how to Dominate your man? Miss Kim Rub is a workshop Queen and has been holding Her own Mistress workshops - Mistressworkshop.com - for almost a decade now, starting off many Professional and lifestyle Mistress’ on their journey into Female Domination.
12am - Orgasm Control demonstration held by Miss Tia Tease
Want to see how chastity can be fed into your D/s dynamic, be shown Kink tools and toys that can aid in diversifying male orgasm control, as well as the art of a ruined orgasm.
After all control the orgasm, control the man.
12.30am - Bondage Workshop demonstration help by Mistress Tess
From cuffs and collars to rope as well as creative home means to tie your man up!
A suitable workshop for both professional and lifestyle Mistresses as well as newbies to Female domination.
The times are subject to slight change and will be notified on posters around the event on the night.
Announcements will also be made via microphone at the DJ box throughout the evening.
All that’s left now is for you to buy your ticket at;